Things have turned a little morbid here.
I imagine that if I were to cease to be alive things would mostly keep ticking over for a while. But for how long exactly?
Assuming that you've got your hosting paid for, supported, or otherwise managed that would continue to exist. But after a while domain names would start to expire, and manual intervention would be required (that is assuming that manual intervention were not required in advance.)
So when I die, I'd have to assume everything I maintained myself would disappear within two years.
Is that depressing, or realistic? I'm not sure. But definitely morbid.
ObFilm: Predator
So morbidity to some form of megalomania or perhaps just narcissism, either way...try imagining having an eager protoge to kick that one, it's a nice out :D
My logfiles all auto-rotate into non-existence eventually. My hosting and my domain name both have auto-renewal available. So, in the end, that just comes down to running out of money. In theory, that problem could get somewhat mitigated by having enough money in an account to pay for those things out of the interest, but that doesn't allow for inflation. In the end, you'd still need someone continuing to pay for hosting if you don't have it hosted for free somewhere.
On the other hand, all the software I've written lives in various public repositories of FOSS projects (and with modern DVCS systems also in everyone's copies of those repositories), so unless those projects themselves die *and* manage to lose all their code, my work will endure.
Trying to find the particular message you referred to, but I can't seem to find it. Mind providing a URL?
Currently I have all logins stored in a pwsafe binary database - so I'm sure that most things could be recovered in the event of a fatality.
But I'd be hard pressed to think who would take over online things, via the estate. I guess it would slowly fade away.
I can definitely sympathise with your aunt though Andy, I know that I've been in a similar situation in the past with a relative and answering machine messages were a real surprise to hear afterward.